What I would LIKE to do and what I do are two very different things. When someone is a real jerk, I would like to blow up, swear and scream at them. However, I never have done this, even though there are some people in my past that I maybe should have frothed at the mouth at. I don't have a good way to deal with justified anger – I usually just walk away, eventually tell someone about it ("venting"), and then try to forget about it. There you go.